單身

單身

單身不一定是貴族
Being a single is not a noble.

單身也許比較自由，但自由也有一個同義詞，叫作寂寞。
Being single is probably more freedom, but there is a word which
has the same meaning "lonely".

因為人不是什麼時候都喜歡獨處的；
Because people don't always like to be alone.

有時好東西需要跟人分享，有時候難過需要有人安慰。
Sometimes we need to share something good, that had touched
our hearts, withsomeone.And sometimes we need someone's
comfort when we are sad.

單身產生的原因，是因經濟上的獨立，人格上的獨立及感
情上的獨立。
The reasons for people being single are financial independence,
personality,and emotion.

獨立是什麼？獨立是需要而不依賴，一個獨立的人需要異
性，而不依賴異性。
What is independence? A person who is independent needs someone
, but does notrely on someone.

做情人之前，他／她應該先是朋友。
Before having a stable relationship, he/she should at first, only see
each other as a friend.

他／她成為你的朋友之後，出現在你的生活裏，才有可能
認識你，了解你，知道你的長處而對你產生好感，進一步
發展感情，變成情人。
After he/she becomes your friend and appears in your life, he/she
will get a chance to know you better, and then he/she can discover
your strengths and get the good feeling towards you.At the right
time, both of you will start your deeper relationship.

世上的顏色並非只有白色或黑色，黑白之間還有漫長的灰
色地帶。
The colors in the world are not only black and white. Between
black and white, there is gray.

只要多相處，便能發現對方的優點或缺點，產生好感及學
習接受缺點，這才是發展感情的自然過程。
People need to spend time together to find each other's strengths
and weaknesses. We feel good about each other and learn how to
accept each other's weaknesses.This is the natural and the right
way to build a good and right relationship.

跟異性交往最重要的不是他／她有多好，而是他／她對你
有多好。
The most important thing and best feeling about dating someone,
not how great the person is,we should depend on how good and nice
he or she treats you.

如果一個人的條件很好有一百分，可是這一百分之中，他
／她只給了你三四十分，或一二十分；相反的，另一個人
也許只有七八十分，可是他卻是全心全意的對待你，那麼
你應該選擇那一個成為你未來伴侶呢？
A person is 100% good, but only gives you 20% or 30% goodness.
Anothe is only 80% or 70% good, but treatsyou well with all of
his/her heart. Which oneshould you choose for your future partner?

其實，每個人的條件都是一樣的，不管你有多好，多優秀
，總有人比你更好。
In fact, everyone is the same, it doesn't matter how good or great
you are,there is always someone better than you.

雖然，我們不是世界上最好的人，但我們可以做一個「對
他／她最好的人」。
Although we are not the best people in the world, we can each be a
person that "Treats him or her with your best."

最好的兩性關係是在於彼此對待彼此的心及行為，而不在
於他／她有多優秀。
The best relationship is built on how great two people treat each
other, and not how great eache of them are.

但是如果有一個人本身已經很好了，對你又是真心真意，
真心愛你，那你真的可以把一生托付給他。
But if the person is a very good person, and he or she treats and
loves you sincerely with his or her whole heart,then you can have
your life with that person.

現在女性考慮婚姻的唯一條件，應該就是妳愛不愛他，他
愛不愛妳，是不是真心真意對妳，跟他在一起會不會有壓
力，會不會快樂，而非他有什麼！

人間的真愛是很難得的，除了神的愛。

Women should consider if the person truly loves them or if they
really love the person. Does he really treat you right? Do you feel
pressure from him when you are with him? Do you feel happy
when you are with him? What a person has is not the first priority
consideration for finding a future partner!! True love is difficult to
find in life, except God's love.

在人的一生中，很難找到一個你真正愛的人，真正可以跟
他過一輩子的人，如果你怯於表達，
In real life, it is difficult to find your true love and the person who
you want to spend the rest of your life with if you don't have courage
to express your feelings toward the person you love!!

所以一定要採取主動，把心裏的話說出來。
Therefore, we all have to be more active and courageous in sharing
our true feelings with the person we love.

如果一個男孩子因為女孩子對他採取主動而看不起她，麼
這個男孩子不是男生，而是一個沒有福氣擁有妳這樣一個
勇敢優質的女孩。
If a boy doesn't respect a girl that tells him how she feels, then the
boy is not a real boy.He doesn't deserve to have her, a brave and
wonderful girl.

幸福比面子重要，如果犧牲一時的面子可以換得一生的幸
福，是非常值得的、勇敢把心裡的話說出來，不要隱藏自
己的真心。
Having happiness is more important than keeping your face. If a
moment of sacrifice can gain a whole life's happiness then it is
very worth it to be brave and tell the true with your heart to the
person who you love.

千萬別說緣份未到，其實緣份到處都有，但卻是稍縱即逝
，如果「緣」不及時把握，那就沒有「份」了。
Don’t say your destiny isn't here yet, your destiny can be anywhere
if you pay more attention.Time is flying all the time and flying fast.
If you don't hold on to your opportunity, your destiny won't exist at all.

一個維持起來輕鬆，愉快的感情容易長久！
A relaxing relationship can be kept longer.

一個維持起來艱難而痛苦的感情不易長久。
A painful relationship isn't only hard to build it, but also difficult to keep.

這時候就應該有所選擇。
This is the moment to make the right choice.